Wednesday, 23 August 2017

A baby of their own after waiting for 16 years



Being a nurse, she cared for others health all day long but had no child of her own to come back to. Married for 16 years without children, the couple were depressed and facing a lot of pressure and judgment from friends and family. This was made worse by the fact that she was a paramedic who knew doctors, treatments, medications and all resources available but was still helpless. Fearing social stigma and interrogations from family, they had migrated to the Middle East. Every vacation was dedicated to desperate attempts at various treatments in different clinics. But all the attempts were in vain and they not only got drained financially but also emotionally.


Finally, they were lucky to visit Gift IVF Centre and under the expert supervision of Dr. Mani they are blessed with a baby girl through surrogacy and the blissful couple is now getting back into a normal social life.

Twin babies for women without uterus



Surrogacy is a boon to many women who cannot conceive naturally because of medical complications. Surrogacy finally came to the aid of this couple married for 5 years without any children.  The woman was diagnosed with congenital absence of uterus and ovaries, which meant that there was no way she could conceive even with artificial reproductive techniques or any kind of infertility treatment. After undergoing surrogacy they are now blessed with two beautiful twin children and needless to say they are double happy

Tuesday, 22 August 2017

Happiness after 8 years of marriage





This couple had desperately hoped and prayed to fulfill their heart's biggest desire - a child of their own. Yet all that eight years of marriage had given them was one blow after the other as the hopeful mother suffered repeated miscarriages due to severe adenomyosis and endometriosis. All the time and effort of visiting several hospitals and doing up to eight different IVF ICSI cycles had failed to deliver on their promise. Forlorn and downcast after their harrowing experiences, they visited Dr. Mani. Owing to his expertise in handling surrogacy cases, Dr. Mani gave them the right guidance and treatment. Today they have reached that blissful moment of happiness they sought for so long and were ecstatic while holding the beloved baby in their arms.

Sunday, 21 June 2015

Belgian woman gives birth to a baby, after transplanting frozen ovary from her childhood !!


A Belgian woman has delivered a baby using transplanted ovarian tissue, which was removed when she was a child.

The woman, who is 29 year old, had severe sickle cell aenemia from childhood and was treated using chemotherapy. Before commencing chemotherapy, the doctors had removed her right ovary and surrounding ovary tissue. Subsequently, the left ovary failed due to the side effects of the  treatment.

After many years, the doctors restored the frozen ovary into the woman. Five months later, the woman started menstruating  and without any ART procedures she became naturally pregnant at the age of 27 and delivered a healthy baby boy.

This brings hope to other women with ovarian problems. But the procedure has risks like. damaging the removed ovary or reintroducing malignant cells at the time of transplant.


Dr. Mani
Surrogacy specialist
GIFT IVF Centre (Director)
surrogatemothersinindia.com

Courtesy – BioEdge, Xavier Symons


Monday, 8 June 2015

Cost of Surrogacy in India

                                                

The cost of surrogacy involves many factors. One of the most important factor which determines cost of surrogacy is the availability of human resource. The number of potential surrogates in India is very high compared  to the European and developed countries and comparatively, their remuneration is  low in India. Another  determinant of the cost of surrogacy is  the cost of living, which is also considerably low in India. In India, Kerala is a much sought after place for surrogacy because women are healthy and educated. The maternal and neonatal mortality rate in Kerala  is very low and comparable to UK and USA. The success rate of surrogacy is also quite high in Kerala.

The cost of surrogacy can be further reduced by doing single embryo transfer to surrogates which will avoid  multiple pregnancy( twins or triplets) which is  30 % more expensive. NICU charges are also less for single babies.

Following costs are involved in  Surrogacy :

1.   Recruitment of surrogate mother and donor (if needed)
2.   All legal agreements.
3.   Keeping of  Medical records.
4.   Blood test, scanning and medical check-up for surrogate mother and donor.     
5.   Counseling of surrogate mother, donor and surrogate mother’s husband.
6    Injections and medicines for surrogate mother and donor.
7.   OR  (Ovum pick-up; Oocyte retrieval) & General Anesthesia.
8.   IVF / ICSI Lab charges.
9.   Surgeon’s fee, Embryologist’s fee, Nursing charges, Post / OP ICU charges.
10. Embryo transfer.
11. Food accommodation and travel for surrogate mothers.
12. Regular scanning, blood test in pregnancy.
13. Anti-natal screening for genetic abnormalities - nuchal translucency 
      scan, double marker/triple marker test, 3D/4D anomaly scan, Doppler
      scans, CTG monitoring.    
14. Delivery / Caesarean
15.  Post-natal care of surrogate mother.
16.  Remuneration to the surrogate mother.

Additional costs (which might occur in some cases)
1.   Frozen Embryo Transfer (FET)
2.   NICU Charges
3.   DNA Testing
4.   Multiple pregnancies
5.   Fees for Passport, Citizenship, Visa, Birth Certificate, Exit Visa.
6.   Accommodation and living expenses of biological parents when they are in  
      India


Dr. Mani
Surrogacy specialist
GIFT IVF Centre (Director)
surrogatemothersinindia.com


Tuesday, 2 June 2015

Surrogacy is booming in Nepal, but where are the ethics and moral codes?

                                              


We were all shocked to hear about the natural disaster which happened in Nepal, but another unexpected and devastating news came out amidst this tragedy. Rescue operators saved 26 new born surrogate babies and hundreds of surrogate mothers from the mishap. This incident opened a Pandora's box of what is happening in Nepal in the name of surrogacy. It was revealed that most of these babies belong to Israeli gay couples and the pregnant surrogates were as well carrying their babies. For comprehending this phenomenon, we need to understand the surrogacy laws in Israel and Nepal.

Israel give permission for gay civil unions and surrogacy. But in Israel, only heterosexual couples can  opt for surrogacy. But strangely, the law gives citizenship to babies born to gay couples through surrogacy outside the country. This has prompted a large number of gay couples to look for surrogacy outside Israel. 

Till 2012 India was a haven for the gay couples to get a child through surrogacy. Compared to the European countries, India was a cheap destination for surrogacy. But when the new Indian law which banned surrogacy for gay couples was introduced in  2012, the scenario changed. The focus was shifted to Thailand till the Baby “Gamy” episode and subsequent ban on surrogacy for foreign couples in Thailand.

This changed Nepal into the most sought after destination for surrogacy. But Nepal has some rather strange laws for surrogacy. Surrogacy is allowed for foreign couples, whether heterosexual or gay, it doesn’t make any difference. But for the citizens of Nepal, surrogacy is banned. They cannot be intended parents nor surrogates. Now this is a strange situation, which has been cashed by middlemen in India. Girls from India are transported to Nepal to act as surrogates. After birth, the child gets Israeli citizenship without any difficulty.



But after the devastating quake in Nepal, the rescue flights carried the Israeli babies, but the pregnant mothers carrying the Israeli babies were left in the lurch. The hapless mothers were left to fend for themselves. This caused a word wide uproar and the incident was termed as “Global Shame”

Dr. Mani
Surrogacy specialist
GIFT IVF Centre (Director)
surrogatemothersinindia.com

Tuesday, 26 May 2015

Maternal love does not care “whose EGG” “whose SPERM” !!

                              


This is the story of my patient  Rebecca, (name changed) whose journey to motherhood has enlightened me that motherly love knows no restrictions. She was suffering from severe vaginismus, a physical or psychological condition that affects a woman's ability to engage in any form of vaginal penetration, including sexual intercourse, insertion of tampons or menstrual cups or the penetration involved in gynecological examinations.

In spite of her medical condition, she got married at the age of 26. Luckily, she had a loving, kind and understanding husband and hence they were coping along together very well. He was very co-operative and was compromising his needs and desires for the sake of their  marriage. After 8 years of being together their craving for a child increased. After lot of counseling,  IUI  was attempted on Rebecca  through general anesthesia, but the attempt was unsuccessful. Her uterus was also small in size and hence chances of threatened abortion was high.

She was adamant that she wanted to have her own baby, but when the situation was explained to her she realized that the only option left was surrogacy. She agreed for surrogacy on the condition that she wanted to use her own egg  along with her husband’s sperm for the procedure. She was aware of the trauma she will have to undergo for egg collection during OR (oocyte retrieval) with her condition of vaginism. Here also 3 unsuccessful attempts were made as the response to stimulation of eggs was poor. Finally she relented for donor egg IVF with husband’s sperm and they were blessed with twin babies through surrogacy.

This had happened three years back, recently I was invited for the kids third birthday party. I was dumbstruck at the change in Rebecca. She was all involved and always doting on the children. Her husband told me that she would not allow any servants or nurses to take care of the babies and made it a point to singlehandedly look after the children. Initially I had apprehensions as to how she would respond to the children since surrogacy was done  with donor egg, knowing how particular she had been of using her own eggs. All my suspicions vanished into thin air, seeing how wonderfully she was taking care of the children.


I distinctly remembered how talkative she was when she first came to me and many a times I would have to strongly bring her to a halt so that I could continue. But now she was not even bothered about anything else and was completely immersed in the activities of her children. I recognized the value of the maternal instinct – once children are born, mothers makes  no distinction between own egg or donor egg.



Dr. Mani
Surrogacy specialist
GIFT IVF Centre (Director)

A baby of their own after waiting for 16 years

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